HADLYME — And so ends peacefully an adventurous life. Ronald “Ron” Rose, 82, of Hadlyme, died Friday, March 17, 2023, at his home (as he wished). It is a sad day, we have lost the patriarch of the family. He is survived by his wife of 58 years, Sally Rose; his five children: Donna (Steve) Coulombe, William (Katherine) Rose, Jane (Jerry) Rose, Rebecca (Frank) Bocian, and Elisabeth (Christopher Gorski) Rose; as well as 12 grandchildren; and a growing number of great-grandchildren; his two brothers, John (Mary) Rose and Edward Rose; and many nieces, nephews and special cousins. An extra thanks goes to his cousin Billy Angier. He also leaves behind numerous friends, whom he considered family. He is predeceased by his best canine buddy, Wes, who crossed the rainbow bridge a few weeks ago.
Ron was born in East Cambridge, Mass., the son of Edward and Mary (Campbell) Rose. He grew up jumping from roof to roof, stealing warm pies out of the bakery and “borrowing” his Uncle Harold’s car with a group of mischievous friends – often facing the wrath of his very strong single mom. His childhood stories will continue to entertain family and friends.
The exploits continued when he, as a young man, joined the military; had three children; and met the love of his life followed by two more children. The U.S. Army took this young family to Italy, and Germany, until returning to the United States in 1967. During his time in the Army, he participated in Operation Dominic and was exposed to atomic radiation which contributed to his poor health later in life.
In the next chapter, Ron earned his private pilot license even though he only had vision in one eye – an example of his determination. He had a variety of occupations including bar owner, construction expert, mechanic, boat captain and real estate broker. In 1977, the family moved to Hadlyme, his wife’s hometown. The city boy loved it here! He found many mentors who led him to a career as a building official and sanitarian for local municipalities including acting as a long-serving town official in Chester and Lyme. Many know him from his service as the chief of the Lyme Fire Department and EMT for the Lyme Ambulance. Ron loved and cared for all people. He excelled at taking the lead in challenging situations where others would shy away. His innumerable acts of service for others touched many lives throughout decades. His selflessness is an inspiration.
He will be remembered for his patronage of many local eating establishments, shout out to Teddy’s Old Lyme Pizza Palace and Illiano’s Grill, as well as his generosity in sharing his love of food with others, and his special sayings. Most recently he would say, “We’re so lucky, Sal; we’re so lucky!” “Thanks, Dad. We feel the same way.”
We ask everyone to take a page out of Ron’s playbook and find beauty in nature, especially the songbirds; take time to volunteer; and bring pastries wherever you go! Our family would like to take the time to thank all of those who have been so generous with their time and thoughtful gifts, especially during Ron’s last months.
Calling hours will be held from 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. Thursday, March 23, at Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home, 13 Beckwith Lane, Old Lyme. A Celebration of his Life will be held later, beginning at 6:30 p.m. Thursday at Filomena’s Restaurant, 262 Boston Post Road, Waterford. Burial will be private. Please visit www.fulton-therouxoldlyme.com for photos, tributes and directions. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to Lyme Volunteer Fire Company and Lyme Ambulance.
My prayers and condolences to Ron’s family and friends.
Dear Rebecca. I am so sorry to hear about your Dad’s passing. He seems to have been a wonderful person as you are dear Rebecca. Fondly, Peg O’Shea
We worked with Ron when we bought/renovated our house in Lyme… very professional, a big loss to the Town of Lyme.